Very Irritating.
The shift I had before was 11pm-9am. I worked monday through thursday. Beth usually works 4-8 or 4-10 on weekdays. Since she started school again it appeared she would be gone every evening for at least 4 hours. Usually 6-8. We also talked before about if I could find an evening job that she would at least attempt having a set weekend day off. I think that's fair. Commit to one weekend day. Be given the other off. Especially since she has seniority over a lot of the people there. Should seriously not be a problem.
She only likes to have sex in the evening or at night. Usually only ever at night. My working 11-9 meant I had to stop whatever I was doing around 10pm and get a shower and everything and leave by 10:30 to be there on time. Her working 'till 8 or 10 meant either sex before work was consistantly time constrained and rushed or impossible.
She seemed to always be staying awake 'till 1-2+am. Every time I asked when she went to bed the night before she would always say late, I don't remember. or say like 1:30, 2, close to 3, etc.
I love her quite a bit. I always look for ways to spend more time with her. And I'm addicted to sex, so of course I'm always looking for ways to try and happen into those situations as often as possible too. So, since she started school again and time with her was getting cut down considerably, I wanted to get a second shift job.
The guy I originally started working for, whom I really like working for, got switched to another location. And he was almost entirely out of staff. One of the shifts he had open was 3-11pm. Perfect. And it involved a pay raise. Problem is, now I'm only seeing her when she's sleeping. Seems now she's asleep or trying to go to sleep by the time I get home at 11:20ish.
Such as tonight. I came in about 11:15. Sound asleep in bed. I woke her up and asked if she intended to sleep all through the night. Checking to see if she was napping. She doesn't intend to get up.
So this begs the question, what the fuck? Feels like I fucked myself out of a lot more time with her. And to make it even more irritating I asked her the other day if she had attempted getting a weekend day off. She was like "They don't even hire people who say they need this or that weekend day off."
Yeah. They don't hire people like that. That's to try and keep out lazy people who care more about partying than their job. I know managers and I've been a team leader enough to know -- if you've been there for a while and earned the respect of your heads enough to be a front end supervisor......
....pretty damn sure you could get a set weekend day off if you just tried.
But whatever. She wasn't even open to the idea at all.
Guess it's the spreading 'Erik is Shit' disease that I can't stop from manifesting everywhere. I think I'm a pretty god damn likable guy for the most part. Have best intentions. May be spoiled and have twisted views of things. I really don't think I'm all that bad. Seems I'm friend or distant aquantance materiel.
Very irritating.
She only likes to have sex in the evening or at night. Usually only ever at night. My working 11-9 meant I had to stop whatever I was doing around 10pm and get a shower and everything and leave by 10:30 to be there on time. Her working 'till 8 or 10 meant either sex before work was consistantly time constrained and rushed or impossible.
She seemed to always be staying awake 'till 1-2+am. Every time I asked when she went to bed the night before she would always say late, I don't remember. or say like 1:30, 2, close to 3, etc.
I love her quite a bit. I always look for ways to spend more time with her. And I'm addicted to sex, so of course I'm always looking for ways to try and happen into those situations as often as possible too. So, since she started school again and time with her was getting cut down considerably, I wanted to get a second shift job.
The guy I originally started working for, whom I really like working for, got switched to another location. And he was almost entirely out of staff. One of the shifts he had open was 3-11pm. Perfect. And it involved a pay raise. Problem is, now I'm only seeing her when she's sleeping. Seems now she's asleep or trying to go to sleep by the time I get home at 11:20ish.
Such as tonight. I came in about 11:15. Sound asleep in bed. I woke her up and asked if she intended to sleep all through the night. Checking to see if she was napping. She doesn't intend to get up.
So this begs the question, what the fuck? Feels like I fucked myself out of a lot more time with her. And to make it even more irritating I asked her the other day if she had attempted getting a weekend day off. She was like "They don't even hire people who say they need this or that weekend day off."
Yeah. They don't hire people like that. That's to try and keep out lazy people who care more about partying than their job. I know managers and I've been a team leader enough to know -- if you've been there for a while and earned the respect of your heads enough to be a front end supervisor......
....pretty damn sure you could get a set weekend day off if you just tried.
But whatever. She wasn't even open to the idea at all.
Guess it's the spreading 'Erik is Shit' disease that I can't stop from manifesting everywhere. I think I'm a pretty god damn likable guy for the most part. Have best intentions. May be spoiled and have twisted views of things. I really don't think I'm all that bad. Seems I'm friend or distant aquantance materiel.
Very irritating.